How to maintain your value through the dating process

In order to attract extraordinary people, we have to be extraordinary. And we not only have to be extraordinary for others, we have to do it for ourselves. Getting the guy starts with raising your game, raising your standards, and understanding from the start that you are a woman of high value. What do I mean by ‘a woman of high value’? Aristotle said, ‘We are what we repeatedly do.’ If we want to embody and exhibit our best qualities, we have to be living them.

How to increase your odds of finding your date

Both sexes are guilty of leaving their love lives to chance. Blame it on the fairy tales read to us as kids, blame it on Hollywood, but the fact remains that we’ve come to believe that true love is the product of fate. We’ve all been led to believe that someday it will just ‘happen’, that one day fate will drop the person of our dreams right next to us while we’re standing at a red light. The fate-will-bring-me-love approach lacks urgency, which leads to lack of action.

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